Deacon
Tom writes,
“How Deep Is Your Love”
Deacon
Tom writes,
“How Deep Is Your Love?”
How easy it is to say, “I love you”. How easy it was
for the people of Nazareth to speak highly of Jesus and to render a favorable
opinion about the gracious words he spoke. It’s quite a different matter
altogether to act with love
toward the people we say we love or to
respond to those gracious words Jesus speaks to us today as he did to
the people in his hometown Synagogue, his friends and neighbors, the people who
watched him grow from youth to a young man and iterant preacher and miracle
worker.
St. Paul writes to the Corinthians about love. Couples
often chose these words for their wedding ritual because they capture our
hearts desire for genuine, selfless love. “Love
is patient, love is kind” Paul says. If he were to stop there, we would
have plenty to think about. We would have to work very hard to show those we
say we love a patient love, a kind love.
But Paul doesn’t stop with those two qualities. He goes on to say that there is
much more to love than patience and kindness. He probes the very essence of
love to reveal that at its very core, to love means to surrender oneself
completely to the other. Love, Paul says, “is
not pompous or rude; is not inflated and doesn’t seek its own interest; it is
not quick-tempered nor does it brood over injury. Love does not rejoice over
wrongdoing; it bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures
all things”.
Love, then, is so much more than simply saying, “I
love you”. It is the journey of a lifetime; one does not get there over night. Rather
it is a slow process of letting go, of dying to self, of subjecting our very
self-will to the will of others. And, should we really give some thought to
this, we can’t love to the depth that Paul describes by ourselves. We need
God’s grace to make any progress at all. For, if we are left to ourselves, we
might act like the people of Jesus’ hometown who hear his “gracious” words and
then, moments later, try to push him over the cliff. They just weren’t prepared
to hear how abundant and liberating God’s love is and that his love goes out to
all who search for him.
There is little doubt that God’s love remains a
mystery. We will never completely understand the depth of divine love in this
life, but we can experience it through the love of others. The deeper our love
becomes, the more selfless our love will be and the closer we will come to the
source of that love who is God and the better we will be at sharing that love
with one another.
Enjoy the day!
Deacon Tom
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