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Deacon Tom Writes,

Family Life or Family Strife?

The Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph, Year B

You can’t expect to be on a championship team if you aren’t willing to give it all you’ve got…. plus some. Anyone who’s played sports or whose kids are athletes has heard the coach say, “Give me all you’ve got”!!! Those who want to make the team bad enough will strive to increase their performance so they can achieve their goal. Our human nature is such that we will do whatever it takes to get whatever we want, if, that is, we want it bad enough. 

St Paul’s Letter to the Colossians envisions a quality of life so desirous that we are willing to give everything we’ve got, plus some, to attain it. He is giving us incredible insight on how to live wholesome, faith-filled lives rooted in the gospel of Jesus Christ, a life that yields peace, thankfulness, gratitude and harmony for ourselves and those with whom we share our lives, starting with our own family. 

 

Paul is creating within us the desire to be God’s family. He is giving us the image of what it is like to accept this generous invitation. In a world that was brutal, suspicious, violent, insensitive, uncaring, (gee, it seems nothing has changed!) Paul offers a vision of hope that flows from our identity of being a part of God’s family. He says, “Put on heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. (We must) bear with one another…forgive one another…settle disputes justly”. What an alternative vision compared to the harsh world around them and the world around us today. Is it any wonder why Christianity grew so rapidly?    

“I have set before you life and death”, we read in the Book of Deuteronomy. “Choose life”, we are commanded. That life that we are called to imitate is modeled after the Holy Family. That is where Jesus came to know and experience the love of a mother and of a father. That is where Jesus came to know of God’s love for Him. Amid the day-to-day life of the Holy Family, Jesus’ conscience was shaped; His love and dependency on God fashioned; His love for God’s Holy People realized. In the safety and security of the Holy Family, Jesus was able to discern the Father’s call. 

As we celebrate this Feast of the Holy Family, let us strive to create an environment for our children and one another that is healthy, safe, loving, respectful, joy-filled, generous, and full of laughter. Let us give our children and one another the space and atmosphere where we can all come to know God’s love, hear His call, and grow together as His children, members of God’s Holy Family. 

May this New Year bring you and your loved ones the

Joy, Peace and Holiness of the Christ Child

Enjoy the day!

Deacon Tom 

 

Please Visit  www.deaconspod.com  and listen in as Paulist Fathers Deacon Affiliates engage in a contemporary conversation exploring the treasures our Catholic faith has to offer to those thinking of coming into or leaving it. 

OTHER RESOURCES

 

Recommended Reading:  Blessed Among Us: Day by Day with Saintly Witnesses by Robert Ellsberg

Since the early centuries, Christians have held up the saints as models of living the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  Blessed Among Us explores this eclectic “cloud of witnesses”—lay and religious, single and married, canonized and not, and even non-Christians whose faith and wisdom may illuminate our path. In two stories per day for a full calendar year, Ellsberg sketches figures from biblical times to the present age and from all corners of this world—ordinary figures whose extraordinary lives point to the new age in the world to come.
  
Blessed Among Us is drawn from Ellsberg’s acclaimed column of the same name in Give Us This Day, a monthly resource for daily prayer published by Liturgical Press

 

Recommended You Tube: Blessed Among Us: Thea Bowman Based on the book "Blessed Among Us: Day by Day with Saintly Witnesses" by Robert Ellsberg, this monthly video series of prayerful meditations on lives well-lived continues with Servant of God Thea Bowman (1937-1990), a religious sister who transcended racism and prejudice to leave a lasting mark on U.S. Catholic life in the late 20th century. Check out this YouTube site to find a treasure trove of Catholic Witness who lives support and encourage our faith through our day-to-day challenges.

 

 

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Deacon Tom Writes,

“When Heaven Came Down To Earth”

The Nativity of the Lord, Year B – Mass During the Day

In the stillness of the night in a remote village, the sound of a newborn baby’s cry interrupts the silence. No ordinary child by heritage, his ancestors include Abraham, Jesse, David, Solomon and Amos, towering figures who had safeguarded the promises given to them by Yahweh that He would one day come down from heaven and live among His people. All creation celebrates this moment in time. Stars in the sky light the way. Angelic Beings sing with joy. Wise men set their course to find him. Nothing in the history of the world before or after this singular moment has had a greater impact on humanity than when heaven came down to earth.   

We look back two thousand years and celebrate this joyful event today as we look forward to the dawning of this new day and the promises it has in store for us… the promises of hope that we have for our children, grandchildren and, for some of us, our great grandchildren…. the promises we have that our loved ones who are suffering will find comfort and rest…. the promises that our broken world may find some peace and that all that divides us will be cast aside.

In the quiet of the evening, He came into the world to be its light.  But the world received him not, back then and still today when we choose resentment over forgiveness; when we choose self over other; when we choose deceit over virtue; when we choose that which does not nourish nor give life over the Eucharist, source of all life; when we choose darkness over light.  And yet, He chooses too; He chooses to come again and again into our broken lives, into our fractured world, peddling His goods… peace, justice, purity, love. One day we’ll get it right… That’s the promise. That’s our hope on this new and beautiful morn.  

May the joy of the Christ Child and the Holy Family be ours this Christmas and may the Son of God and Son of Mary grant us the deepest desires that lie within our hearts.  

Merry Christmas!

And a Healthy, Holy and Joyous New Year!

May the joy of the Christ Child and the Holy Family be ours this Christmas and may the Son of God and Son of Mary grant us the deepest desires that lie within our hearts.

Enjoy Every Moment!

Please Visit www.deaconspod.com and listen in as the three deacs engage in a contemporary conversation exploring the treasures our Catholic faith has to offer to those thinking of coming into or leaving it.

 

OTHER RESOURCES

 

Recommended Reading:  The Power of Now – A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment by Eckhardt Tolle. Much more than simple principles and platitudes, the book takes readers on an inspiring spiritual journey to find their true and deepest self and reach the ultimate in personal growth and spirituality: the discovery of truth and light. The author leads the reader on a journey that is thrilling, and along the way, he shows us how to connect to the indestructible essence of our “Being” and how to live fully in the present.

 

 

Recommended You Tube: Bethlehem -  Psalm 2 - Psalm Sense with Fr. John Geaney, Paulist Fathers.  Fr John reminds of us the Reason for the Season. Listen in!

 

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Deacon Tom Writes,

A Wonderful Mystery

 Fourth Sunday of Advent, Year B

 St. Paul uses the one word that succinctly summarizes this Advent Season and the most holy event it precedes, the birth of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. The word he uses is “mystery”. The Mystery of the Incarnation, the mystery of God enshrouding Himself in human flesh is the mystery of God’s abiding love for us. Because of this love, “Christ emptied himself and took the form of a slave, being born in the likeness of men” (Phil 2:7). Fully God, fully man, Jesus enters human history to reveal the fullness of God’s love for all creation.

We read today of two people who were drawn into this mystery of God’s self-revelation to the world. They are David and Mary. The Prophet Samuel tells us that David wants to build a dwelling for God. But God has other plans. Yes, David will establish a house for the Lord, but not in the way that David envisioned it. The household that the Lord will establish through David will be one that will last forever. It will be a household that includes Joseph and Mary and that finds its completion in Jesus who fulfills that promise by becoming a “dwelling place” for all.

On this Fourth Sunday of Advent as we hope for an end of the violence in Israel and the Ukraine, our hearts are yearning for the Divine to come to us. We turn away from the noise and clatter and frenzy of the world to hear the deep silence within give way to the chant, “Come, come, Emanuel, come Emanuel” as we invite the Holy Child into our lives, that He may abide in us and we become Temples of the Holy Spirit.

What is our heart’s desire this Christmas day? What is it that will make us complete? What will it take to fill our emptiness? My guess is that material things can’t come close to satisfying the cravings of our human spirit. What we really want, what will satisfy our innermost longings are the gifts that only God can give us, such as: calming our restless spirits, consoling our loss of a loved one, filling us with an inner peace, bringing us true joy, and, perhaps, a bit of happiness. Or, perhaps, we are in need of help so that we can let go of old grudges and to jettison old hurts or memories. We are in dire need of spiritual or emotional comforts and healings.

It is not possible to imagine that the infant whose birth we await desires that we remain in the constant state of hopelessness and despair. On the contrary, He came to set us free from all that would keep us bound up. He came to proclaim, “release to the prisoners”. That includes freeing us from our own self-imposed bondage(s).

May the mystery of God’s love revealed in the Infant Jesus free us from all that keeps us from loving Him and from loving one another.

May you experience a  most wonderful Christmas and a New Year filled with Christ’s abiding Peace and Joy!

Deacon Tom

Please Visit www.deaconspod.com  and listen in as the three deacons engage in a contemporary conversation exploring the treasures our Catholic faith has to offer to those thinking of coming into or leaving it.
 

 

OTHER RESOURCES

Recommended Reading: Reasons to Believe - A Personal Story  Belief is difficult. Sometimes we need to see to believe. Jesus was gentle with Thomas and his doubts. He allowed him to touch His wounded heart. Is He doing the same for us now, in this new millennium? As a compelling and thought-provoking witnesses to their faith, Ron Tesoriero, lawyer author, and Michael Willesee, investigative journalist, take a look at several Eucharistic Miracles and build a powerful fact-based-case for belief in Eucharist

 

Recommended You Tube: Eucharistic Miracles of Buenos Aires - Bread to Human Heart by Robert Ellsberg, Editor of Orbis Books on the release of her recent book, Father Ed The Story of Bill W.’s Spiritual Sponsor. Wonderful overview of this timely book.

 

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Deacon Tom Writes,

Rejoice!

Jesus begins His ministry in Galilee quoting the words of the Prophet Isaiah that we hear today on this Third Sunday of Advent. They are worth reading again:

“The spirit of the Lord GOD is upon me, because the LORD has anointed me; He has sent me to bring glad tidings to the poor, to heal the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives and release to the prisoners, to announce a year of favor from the LORD and a day of vindication by our God…” (IS 61:1- 2a)

This is the “Good News” that has been celebrated generation after generation since this prophesy was fulfilled by Christ 2000 years ago. Jesus is the one who brings us the good news that our captivity has come to and end; he teaches His disciples the good news that lifts our broken spirits pummeled by sickness, sin, and death. Jesus is the one who frees us from everything that imprisons us or has robbed us of our human dignity. Jesus restores our genuine freedom. Jesus comes to our rescue announcing that God’s favor is upon us. On our part, we wait in hope; we wait patiently for Emmanuel to come into our lives. So, we wait… and watch.

Advent is a wonderful time of year. It is a season of hope and anticipation. It is even more so this year as we face so many challenges and difficulties of epic proportions as Covid-19 has imposed upon us an isolation beyond anything most of us have experienced previously. Our world has grown cold. It is a world very much in need of the “fire of God’s love”.

As we light the rose candle this Gaudete Sunday (R-E-J-O-I-C-E), this Third Sunday of Advent, we rejoice in God’s nearness to us. We rejoice because the Light of Christ approaches and the days of darkness are dispelled in our sight. We rejoice because Christ comes to fill us with the fire of His love. We rejoice because our time of deliverance is at hand. We rejoice because Our Savior comes to do what the world cannot do – give us the joy and happiness that can only come from Him; joy and happiness to be shared with one another; joy and happiness that will last forever.

Enjoy the day!
Deacon Tom

Please Visit www.deaconspod.com and listen in as the three deacs engage in a contemporary conversation exploring the treasures our Catholic faith has to offer to those thinking of coming into or leaving it.

 

 

OTHER RESOURCES

 

Recommended Reading: “Open Mind, Open Heart” by Cistercian Father Thomas Keating. A deep and thorough overview of the Christian contemplative tradition, a process of interior transformation, a conversation initiated by God and leading, if we consent, to divine union. Herein a restructuring of consciousness takes place which empowers one to perceive, relate and respond to everyday life with increasing sensitivity to the divine presence in, through, and beyond everything that happens. Fr. Thomas gives step-by-step guidance in the method of Centering Prayer, a movement of divine love designed to renew the Christian contemplative tradition.

Recommended You Tube:  “Stillness and the Fruit of Attention” YouTube: 79 The Most Excellent Path, Part 1, with Thomas Keating who leads us on the spiritual journey – Formation in the Christian Contemplative Life.

 

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Deacon Tom Writes,

“Waiting in Hope”

 

Second Sunday of Advent, Year B

Last week we read the Prophet Isaiah raising this prayer to God on behalf of God’s chosen ones who had long desired the Lord’s mighty presence to be with them: “Oh that you would rend the heavens and come down”. Today Isaiah repeats that plea instructing the people, “Fear not to cry out and say to the cities of Judah: Here is your God! Here comes with power the Lord God, who rules by His strong arm…”.

These two readings from Isaiah express a wonderful mystery of our faith, not that we have to implore God to be by our side; not that we have to beg Him to come down from His lofty mountain and connect with His people. The mystery of our faith is that He is already here… that God is with us right at this present moment. Yet, at the same time, we have not yet fully experienced His presence; we are a people waiting for the Lord to return in glory and bring His Kingdom to its completion. Advent is a time to reflect on His presence in our daily lives and to know that there is more to come…And so, we wait in hope! We look ahead to the day when God’s fullness will totally reign in our hearts and in the world. We wait for that day when a new heaven and the new earth will replace the old order; we wait for the day when the justice, peace, and the realities of God’s Kingdom replace the disharmony, chaos and pure evil that are the dominant forces at work in our world today; we wait for our lives to be more complete and fulfilling with the gifts of God that satisfy the deepest longings of our hearts.

Advent is a season of expectant hope. It is a time when we dream new dreams about becoming the person God has called us to be. It is a time when the Spirit of Hope leads us to new beginnings. Who do you want to be when that new heaven and new earth arrives? Do you want to be a more caring person? Do you want to be more gracious, more thankful and more prayerful? Or, perhaps, we want to leave behind memories of the past that are painful and full of sorrow. The beauty of Advent is that we get to fill in the blanks… and be filled with the hope that, with God’s help, we can accomplish all we dare to hope. Advent is a time of waiting, a season of hope, for God to come into our lives and fill us with the true gifts of this season… peace, joy, love, those gifts that come from the Holy Spirit.

Each of us has the opportunity to reclaim Advent as a special time of hope. Each of us can make this a spiritual season by looking inward and hoping that the promises God holds in store for each one of us will become our reality… promises of newness, renewal, of our well being. That’s what hoping is all about. .

May this Advent journey be a time of new beginnings, new hopes and new joys. May God’s gift of new life set us free to seek the giver and share the many gifts He has in store for those who place their hope in Him.

Enjoy the day and the season!
Deacon Tom

 

Please Visit www.deaconspod.com and listen in as the three deacs engage in a contemporary conversation exploring the treasures our Catholic faith has to offer to those thinking of coming into or leaving it.

 

OTHER RESOURCES

Recommended Reading: “Channel of Peace, Stranded in Gander on 9/11” by Kevin Tuerff tells the story of a stranded traveler’s encounter with boundless acts of generosity and compassion from total strangers. This is a great read during these challenging times.

 

Recommended You Tube: a short reflection on “Stillness and the Fruit of Attention” by Fr. Lawrence Freeman, OSB that encourages us to develop the practice of contemplation in our lives.