Twenty-fourth Sunday_B - Better Choices - Better Results_091221

Deacon Tom Writes,

“Better Choices - Better Results” 

Twenty-fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year B

This Saturday marks the twentieth anniversary of the World Trade Center tragedy. As we commemorate this heart rending occasion we suffer the additional trauma of watching the U.S. withdrawal from Afghanistan. We have all has our share pain and suffering over these years, the consequence of both natural disasters and of our own poor decisions. There’s nothing new here, I suspect. But, perhaps more than ever, it may be time to look at our decision making process that has produced such anguish, anxiety and negativity in our local and global communities, in our churches, in our politics and in our families. 

There is a saying that goes like this, “If you always do what you always have done, you will always get what you’ve already got”. So, if we keep eating the cheesecake, we are going to keep adding on the pounds! Makes perfect sense, doesn’t it? So, when it comes to understanding and solving the problems in our families, in our communities and in our world, we need a different mindset than fighting fire with fire, or punching back harder when someone strikes us. We need a higher level of thinking to find real solutions. To paraphrase Einstein, genius that he was,  he said it this way, “Problems cannot be solved with the same mind set that created them”. Many of the problems of our world, our communities and in our families are of our own making. We have no one to blame but ourselves for the bitter results of our poor choices. Real solutions to any problem that ails us demand that we pursue alternate and elevated way of thinking than the thinking that got us into that bad situation as Einstein so eloquently noted. 

For us whose faith is centered upon Christ, today’s gospel gives us insight into finding solutions to any problem we face, large or small. Jesus tells Peter, “You are thinking not as God does, but as human beings do”. The invitation here is clear:  elevate your thinking! This may be an oversimplification, true. But, at the same time, it is good advice. For left to our old patterns of thinking, one could reasonably expect more of the same... more war, more violence, more suffering and pain, more erosion of the moral and spiritual fabric of society in a continuing state of decline. 

The antidote to this dismal future lies in the essence of Jesus’ teaching that is founded upon the dynamic principle of Love. Love of God and love of neighbor. Simple, yet this is the challenge of a lifetime. Love as Jesus loved: selflessly, unconditionally, without ulterior motive or even a desire to be loved in return. Love that forgives all injuries, infidelities, idolatries.  It is called agape, where Jesus empties himself because of his complete and total love of God and dependence upon God for all things and for all outcomes. This is the way God, Abba, thinks, acts, and IS. And God invites us to do the same! 

Change the way we think, act and how we approach our problems from our way to God’s ways and while that might not produce immediate results on a global scale, more than likely we will be much more successful solving problems in our homes and in our communities. A good enough start wouldn’t you agree? 

Enjoy the day!
Deacon Tom

Twenty-fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time_A - Forgiveness_091320

Deacon Tom Writes,

"Forgiveness"

Twenty-fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year A

There is no shortage of reports of the civil unrest, street violence, interpersonal conflicts and domestic abuse that individuals and communities experience on a daily basis. So many of our brothers and sisters endure unimaginable suffering which, too often, is intentionally inflicted on them for hateful reasons. We are no strangers to this behavior; it has gone on for years. Violence, conflict, suffering is the stuff that fuels Hollywood’s piggy bank. In reality there is no need for Hollywood to produce these images, real people in the real world are living them and often the misery of others is right outside our door, on our street, on neighbor’s house or, perhaps, even our own. We seem to be living during a time of endless conflict, division, discord, hostility. How are people able to forgive those who have brought such pain and suffering into their lives? How can anyone put their life back together after such traumatic suffering without resorting to the ancient custom of revenge and retaliation toward those who have caused their suffering?  

The people of South Africa and Ireland seemed to have met with some success in providing alternatives for ending systemic violence.  In the case of South Africa ending apartheid, the legalized segregation of the population into black and white, was crucial in stopping the brutality.  In the case of Ireland, years of economic domination gave way in the late 1980’s to a period of economic growth and stability that has been a significant factor helping build a bridge to a new era of peace and cooperation between former adversaries. 

In these two examples, where ancient rivalries have yielded to a day of peace, there is another dynamic at work that draws its inspiration from the Triumph of the Cross. The spirit of forgiveness and reconciliation that emanates from Christ’s salvific action has taken root. If you look at Christ as the victim who represents all the victims who have ever suffered throughout time, before him and after him, then we can see in his death that there is no need for further victims.  The message of the cross is this:  NO MORE VICTIMS. 

This message has been slow to take root for certain, but as fragile as that root may be, it is showing signs of life.  For we could not experience the reconciliations that have happened in Ireland or in South Africa and in other places where former adversaries now live side by side, unless we understand that our spiritual destiny is tied up with that of our torturers, “unless each of your forgives your brother from your heart”. We are called to love others as God loves us.  This is the only way we will have a future.  If we are not able to get beyond the violence, the violence will consume us.  For Christians, violence stops at the cross. 

This is the real Triumph of the Cross: that we are learning how to forgive others as Jesus did. May God give us the courage, strength and wisdom to forgive those who have hurt and those, in turn, we have hurt.

Enjoy the day!

Deacon Tom